Hi dear,

I am really happy that as a parent you want to inculcate such values.. Yes it is very important for the child to understand that failure is also a part of life and infact success too... You can tell him the stories of the spider who was trying to build a cobweb and finally got success after umpteen efforts.. Also give him or tell him from your life or his close family how failure taught them way to success.. Also play family games and loose and show how positive way you take....you need to keep on giving instances at different situation, slowly and steadily he will understand dear... Take care

Hello dear...I've experienced this with my sister's kid. This sort of mindset kills peacefulness in kids as well as parents. To overcome it, please motivate your kid that he should change his behavior of running behind 1st rank. Explain to him that his failure gives u more satisfaction than his hurry to be the winner. Sometimes failures make learn a better lesson than success. Running mentally for the highest marks leaves him into stress and it affects his health. Activities mainly jogging, yoga, games help kids to gain more mental power along with physical fitness which in turn plays an important role in making them healthier and confident by decreasing their stress level. Always encourage, appreciate your kid if he is not able to get top rank. This way we could help our kid. I hope this will help you too. Take care.