All advice by Nidhi
Posted 2 days ago
Mere bachche ko sirf kitaabi gyaan milega ya woh duniya ke liye bhi ready hoga?
Mere bachche ko sirf kitaabi gyaan milega ya woh duniya ke liye bhi ready hoga?
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Answered 2 days ago
Yeh chinta har maa ke dil mein hoti hai, lekin yaad rakhiye ki school sirf academic base banata hai, asli duniya-daari aur life skills bachcha ghar ke mahaul aur apne experiences se seekhta hai. Agar aap chahti hain ki aapka bachcha practical bane, toh usse sirf marks ke peeche mat bhagaiye. Ghar ke chhote decisions mein usse shamil karein, jaise grocery ki shopping ya chhote-mote hisaab-kitaab mein madad lena, taaki usse waastavik duniya ki samajh aaye. Bachche ko real world ke liye ready karne ke liye unhe outdoor sports, group activities aur social events mein participate karne dein. Jab bachcha... See more
Posted 7 days ago
What legal action can I take in India if my company pressure me to resign after I inform them about my pregnancy?
What legal action can I take in India if my company pressure me to resign after I inform them about my pregnancy?
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Answered 7 days ago
Dear sister, please stay calm and do not submit your resignation under any pressure. Under Section 12 of the Maternity Benefit Act, 1961, it is strictly illegal for an employer to discharge, dismiss, or force a woman to resign due to pregnancy. First, gather written proof: save all emails, chat records, and past performance reviews. Send a formal email to your HR and senior management confirming your pregnancy, stating your desire to continue working, and politely reminding them that forced resignation violates Indian maternity laws. If the harassment continues, you can file a complaint with the local Labour Commissioner or... See more
Posted 2 weeks ago
Is eating extra ghee in the ninth month really helpful for a normal delivery, or is it just a myth?
Is eating extra ghee in the ninth month really helpful for a normal delivery, or is it just a myth?
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Answered 2 weeks ago
Dear mother, while our elders lovingly advise eating extra ghee to "lubricate" the birth canal, this is actually a myth! Scientifically, ghee goes straight to your digestive system, not your reproductive tract. A normal delivery depends on factors like your baby's position, pelvic size, and health during labor—not on how much ghee you consume. Having 1–2 teaspoons of ghee daily is wonderful for strength and energy, but consuming excessive amounts in the ninth month can cause unnecessary weight gain, heartburn, and severe indigestion. For a smooth delivery, it is much better to focus on light daily walking, safe pelvic exercises... See more
Posted 2 weeks ago
Kya pregnancy ke dauran kesar wala doodh peene se baby ka color fair hota hai, ya ye sirf ek myth hai?
Kya pregnancy ke dauran kesar wala doodh peene se baby ka color fair hota hai, ya ye sirf ek myth hai?
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Answered 2 weeks ago
Dekho beta, pregnancy mein kesar wala doodh peene se baby ka rang fair hota hai, yeh ek bahut common belief hai, par scientific evidence is baat ko support nahi karta. Yeh sirf ek pyaara myth hai! Baby ka skin colour primarily uske parents ke genes par depend karta hai, yani genetic factors hi main role play karte hain. Kesar apne aap mein healthy ho sakta hai, uske kuch benefits hain jaise digestion improve karna ya mood better karna, but uska skin tone se koi direct connection nahi. Toh, is myth ke peeche mat jaao. Instead, apni pregnancy mein ek balanced... See more
Posted 3 weeks ago
How can I ensure my child's education truly prepares them for a dynamic India, beyond just grades?
How can I ensure my child's education truly prepares them for a dynamic India, beyond just grades?
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Answered 3 weeks ago
Namaste! To prepare your child for today's fast-changing India, focus on building curiosity and practical skills rather than just chasing top marks. Encourage them to ask "why" and "how," read beyond school textbooks, and learn through real-life activities—like managing small monthly budgets or handling daily chores. Encouraging them to pursue hobbies and sports builds resilience, creativity, and teamwork, which are far more valuable in the long run than simple rote learning. Equally important is nurturing strong communication skills, adaptability, and digital literacy. Help your child express their thoughts confidently and stay comfortably updated with technology. Teaching them emotional strength and... See more
Posted 3 weeks ago
Kya pregnancy ki wajah se company mujhe job se nikal sakti hai, aur iske against mere paas kya legal rights hain?
Kya pregnancy ki wajah se company mujhe job se nikal sakti hai, aur iske against mere paas kya legal rights hain?
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Answered 3 weeks ago
Beta, pregnancy ki wajah se company aapko job se nahi nikal sakti. India mein Maternity Benefit Act, 1961 aapko poori tarah se protect karta hai. Is Act ke तहत, koi bhi employer kisi pregnant employee ko uski pregnancy ke dauraan ya uski maternity leave ke dauraan terminate nahi kar sakta. Agar aisa hota hai, toh yeh kanooni roop se galat hai aur unhe iske liye jurmana ya saza ho sakti hai. Aapko 26 हफ्ते (weeks) ki paid maternity leave ka adhikar hai, jismein delivery se pehle aur baad ka samay shamil hai. Aapke paas apne company ke HR department se... See more
Posted 3 weeks ago
Photography for new born and family. Looking for a photographer
Hi,I stay in Mumbai - thane. Iam new here. I am looking for recommendations for new born photography. Please suggest me if you know any good photographer in this area who is willing to do photography for my new born! Also my first son birthday party is near. Can someone... See more
My Answer | Total 1 vote
Answered 3 weeks ago
Finding the right photographer for these precious moments is so important, especially when you're new to the city! For newborn photography, look for specialists who have extensive experience with babies – their safety and hygiene practices are paramount. Check their portfolio to ensure their style matches what you envision. Many excellent photographers in the Mumbai-Thane area advertise on local parenting Facebook groups or Instagram; searching with terms like 'newborn photographer Thane' or 'baby photography Mumbai' should give you a good start. For your first son's birthday party, consider someone who excels at capturing candid moments and the joyous atmosphere of... See more
Posted a month ago
First pregnancy conformed what to take step now..
Hllo ladies i m first time pregnant ..as pregnancy conformed yesterday ..what should i do now.. Pls help.
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Answered a month ago
Many congratulations on this wonderful news, beta! This is such a special time. Your very first step should be to schedule an appointment with a good gynecologist as soon as possible. They will confirm your pregnancy, give you vital advice, start you on prenatal vitamins like folic acid, and guide you through your antenatal care journey. While waiting for your appointment, focus on healthy habits: eat nutritious, home-cooked food, get plenty of rest, and avoid any heavy lifting or unnecessary stress. Share this joyful news with your family; their support will be invaluable. Enjoy every moment of this beautiful new... See more
Posted a month ago
Is there an easy, Indian-inspired beauty routine that helps me look refreshed, not just "presentable," even on the busiest days with a newborn?
Is there an easy, Indian-inspired beauty routine that helps me look refreshed, not just "presentable," even on the busiest days with a newborn?
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Answered a month ago
Absolutely! Even with a newborn, a few minutes can make a world of difference. Start your day with a splash of cool water, then gently cleanse your face with a quick paste of besan (gram flour) mixed with a little milk or water – it acts as a mild exfoliant and brightener. Rinse off, pat dry, and then spritz pure rose water for an instant refresher and toner. For tired eyes, keep chilled green tea bags or cucumber slices ready in the fridge; just two minutes can reduce puffiness. Finish with a tiny drop of almond or coconut oil massaged... See more
Posted a month ago
Pls suggest good products for daily use
Hi everyone How r you all ? Please help me out I have very uneven skin tone, pigmentation and dark spots I use make up everyday to hide these spots from my skin so please share if anyone of you know any good product which can hide my them and... See more
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Answered a month ago
Didi, it's quite common to experience uneven skin tone and pigmentation, especially with daily exposure. For daily use to gently cover these spots without harming your skin, consider using a good quality BB cream or CC cream. These are lighter than foundation but offer decent coverage, often with added skincare benefits like SPF and hydration. Look for formulations that are non-comedogenic and suitable for sensitive skin. A light layer can work wonders. For more targeted coverage, a colour corrector (like an orange or peach shade for dark spots on Indian skin) applied before your BB/CC cream can be very effective.... See more