Sweety Roy
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I am a proud mother of a 4 year toddler ....have a 12 years experience of corporate sector. But currently stay home mom ... Love to explore new areas of work and looking forward to help and learn from others.
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There are couple of bachelors staying in my neighbourhood. They make extreme noises on weekends.
Hope you are doing good. As for the situation you are facing, I woud suggest all the families who are facing problems, make a group and talk to them. Sometimes talking helps. You can tell them to maintain a time line or whatever suits both the party. If this doesnot work then talk to the owner of the house and let him speak in the soceity office. Then they will also take some step.
Hope this helps.
Take care.
Due to the outset, my company wants me to relieve as they have no funds.
I am really sorry that you have to go through this. As per rule, a company cannot ask its pregnant woman employee to leave the job. You can talk to the HR and see if anything can be done. If you want you can sue them but that will be a lot of stress specially when you r pregnant. If nothing works out, talk to your family members and see if they can manage till you are able to find a new job or you can start some homebased business also till that time.
Hope this helps.
Take care.
Due to the outset, my company wants me to relieve as they have no funds.
I am really sorry that you have to go through this. As per rule, a company cannot ask its pregnant woman employee to leave the job. You can talk to the HR and see if anything can be done. If you want you can sue them but that will be a lot of stress specially when you r pregnant. If nothing works out, talk to your family members and see if they can manage till you are able to find a new job or you can start some homebased business also till that time.
Hope this helps.
Take care.
Heavy bleeding just after 1 week of delivery. Can you please suggest
Congratulations on your delivery. Bleeding also known as lochia after delivery is normal. Generally bright red and a little heavy bleeding is there in the first 10 days. After that it lightens and then it stays for 4-6 weeks. But if the flow is heavier or the clots is bigger then the size of a plum and there is continous heavy flow, then please consult the doctor dear.
Hope this helps.
Take care
What are the best designs for modular kitchen?
Congratulations dear for your new house. Kitchen as per me is the most necessary part of our home. Recently I also shifted to a new house and made a modular kitchen. What we did was, used waterproof plywood in kitchen. Choose bright colours. We inculted white to make the kitchen look bright. Kept a lot of cabinets in such a manner that everything is within the range. Try to keep ur kitchen clutter free. You can get more ideas on Pinterest. Also there are companies which will make an good modular kitchen as per your requirements.
Hope this helps
What are the best topics to choose to start write ups?
Hope you are doing good. It is great to know that you want to start writing and I must say it is a great idea. Many moms are also taking it as an profession. As to what to start with depends on which field you have interest, it could be cooking, health and fitness, makeup and fashion, art and craft or career and business oppurtunities. All these are trending and what you need to remember is that to get more readers you need to have that special tip or technique in whatever you are dealing. Dont worry once you slowly start, everything will be fine dear...
Hope this helps.
Take care
Can I change my attorney ? Does that affect?
Yes, you can definetly change ur attorney. But there is simple procedure to follow. You need to take permission from the court with a written request which you can get it done with help with the new attorney. Also you need to get a no objection certificate (NOC)from your current attorney.
Incase your attorney refuses to give noc, then you can appeal against the attorney in the court.
Hope this helps.
All the strength to you.
What are the best international languages?
Learning a foreign language is definetly going to improve your career prospect and its a good decision. So, as for Spanish or German, my suggestion will be German or French though there are more Spanish speaking countries.But many banks, world organisations, tech companies and of course fashion companies use French and German. Just to name a few well known, most successful companies in the world that are based in French or German speaking countries. Few of the many famous brands are Loreal, Dior, Capegemini, Mercedes, BMW. So, as per me it will be German .
Hope this helps..take care.
What is the best investment according to you - either or constructed house
Investment on property is considered to be good. But there are many pros and cons in this. First I would request you to discuss with your family as to how are you going to take care of the property once you buy it. To keep it away from tresspassers or any illegal doings you need someone who can take care of the property for you. Then comes the question of land or a property with house. If u buy u can build house as per ur requirements but if u buy a house and if it is an old construction then a depreciation value is there and u might need to invest again on repairs too. However, if u get a new house and within ur budget then you might consider it.
Hope this helps.
Do you think, is that okay to wash after every time you pee?
im 8 wks pregnant when i was 5 wks i weighed 70kg and now im 80kg
How to get rid of facial dullness and get glow on my skin.
I want to discontinue my LIC policies
What should be the baby heart rate in 3rd trimester.
Usually 120 and above is what is normal, my gynaecologist had told me. However, drop in baby's heartbeat needs to be checked with other parameters also. It is always better to follow the doctor's guidance in such case dear... Don't worry... Take care
I am suffering from hairfall for more than 6 months now and its increasing day by day.
Please don't get stressed, sometimes stress also can be the reason for hair fall, try to follow a healthy diet with lots of green vegetables, regular exercise and keep yourself happy, apart from that try using herbal products. One more thing you can try is onion juice, just make a paste of it and squeeze out the juice and apply it. Do it thrice a week. Please be little patient as results might take some time... Take care
How and where to apply for a small scale business loans?
There is nothing to worry, you can contact your own bank itself where you have an account and they will help you. All banks give small term loans to small business... If you have proper doucuments and papers ready there will be no problem. You can talk to the branch manager for more details.
All the best
Vomitings in pregnancy
Congratulations on your pregnancy!! Yes it is very much normal, infact I also faced it so my doctor suggested me to eat something as soon as I woke up and before leaving the bed, that means before you wash your face and brush your teeth too. Initially I felt awkward eating anything without brushing but yes when I started having something on the bed itself it helped me a lot . You can ask your husband to give you a glass of milk with two overnight soaked almonds... Or keep some dry fruits, dry snacks like khakra or roasted makhana near your bed. Have them once you wake.. That will also help... Take care
How to proceed with inter caste marriage without any issue.
Since both of you are adults, there will be no problem legally... Just make sure to get your marriage registered if you both want to go for marriage... Hope this helps.
Please suggest solution for Gastric Issue.
Generally the main issue for facing acidity is lifestyle... Taking a balanced meals timely, proper rest and exercise will help you to get over acidity issues.. Also do avoid taking spicy and oily food. If the problem still persists then do consult the doctor.. Take care
What is good, being a Vegetarian or Non Vegetarian?
I personally feel there is no harm in being a non vegetarian.... Problems arise only when the food is not cooked properly... Same thing might happen with vegetables also if you don't wash them properly, toxins in vegetable can cause mild problems.. With the Indian way of cooking and consuming food is the best way as non veg items are properly cooked in high heat.. So there is nothing to be worried about.
Take care
What is DnC process and any other alternative to this.
DNC is basically cleaning of the uterus. There is actually no other way since there is already a clot there.. However there is nothing to worry about... My cousin had gone through it a few months back and she said that she did not feel any pain during or after the procedure... Anesthesia is given during the procedure so there is nothing to worry about it dear.
What is the main reason of having hairfall
Lifestyle plays an important role in every aspect and yes hair growth also is affected.. Having a healthy lifestyle helps in every way... For stopping hair fall and ensure proper hair growth important is having a balanced diet with plenty of water... But having meals on time, taking proper rest and getting exercise is also equally important.. I myself have faced it... Do make sure you have a healthy lifestyle and believe me it will be helpful.
How to remove facial hairs?
I am using an epilator, there is no harm in investing in one.. But if you are thinking of eyebrows then that will not work. However try to exfoliate first the skin, it helps to remove dead skin and opens the pores... Use the epilator on dry skin.. Once done use aloevera gel... This gives a soothing effect...hope this helps.
How to make my baby look chubby.
When my baby was of the same age, I also used to think so and tried ways to make him look chubby.... Then my son's paediatrician guided me and said that chubbiness is also dependent on the genes... So he told that what mainly matters is that the pee count should be more than 6, should achieve milestone on time and be active.... These are signs that the baby is healthy... And believe me when I followed my doctor's advice it brought peace in my mind and helped a lot... So I would suggest you that since the pee count is good, and if the baby is active with timely milestones then don't worry about it dear....Happy parenting
When I can start giving Horlicks to my baby?
I would suggest you to avoid Horlicks or any health drinks for the child ....these health drinks have too much of sugar which is not good for the baby.. I myself have never given to my son. ..my son used to also be fussy about drinking milk... It was due to a smell which they actually get. So I boiled the milk with little cardamon powder and that helped...sometimes gave fruit smoothies which served two purpose of milk and fruit to the kid... If these still don't work then give curd and paneer to the child... These are equally nutritious and have protein and are good... So even if the baby doesn't have milk and has curd and paneer then don't worry dear.... Take care
How can I apply for teaching in government schools after B.Ed
If you want to apply for government schools then you have to go for TET which is Teacher Eligibility Test for the particular state and for central school CTET is compulsory dear. Since you really need a job and have a B.ed too I would suggest you to go for private school and keep giving the exams side by side... Once you pass these exams then you can leave the private one and go for the government schools.. Hope this helps.
What business i can do with 50,000 investment?
One of my friend is in reselling business and she has started with a small amount like you... She first got few regular use cotton Kurtis and started selling them from home, then slowly as things started to move she got few more varieties depending on the demand and like this slowly she expanded... You can try this dear.. All the best
Is there any way to get divorce without filing a case?
Lots of hugs to you and sending positive vibes, however without filing a case getting divorce is not possible. If it is on mutual terms then the cost will be little low otherwise you need to fight it at court. If you have strong evidence you can connect to the women association in your town who might help and also help to establish you financially... Hope this helps.. Take care.
Any alternative fruits for Vitamin C except oranges.
Oranges are very good source of vitamin c and absolutely safe in pregnancy... Apart from that oranges you can include bell peppers, guava, Kiwi, leafy vegetables, cauliflower, tomatoes and broccoli in your diet, they are also a good source of vitamin c apart from the citrus fruits .
Can't control the habit of eating raw rice
Eating of raw rice is not safe, it can cause bloating and cause problems with digestion... The craving of having uncooked rice generally happens due to vitamin and minerals deficiency, sometimes low hemoglobin can also be the reason, try to take a high protein diet with lots of iron rich foods... Make a balanced diet plan and follow it, if cravings still continues then consult the doctor.
How to upgrade my coding skills and look for freelance projects.
Since you want to return to your career, I would once suggest you to have a go through for the different changes in your field, update yourself.. Apart that you can apply in Upwork or Freelancer. Com, they keep hiring. Even few companies prefer freelancer, so get some good consultancy list and forward them your resume too... All the best.
How to reduce lower lip size.
There is nothing to worry you can start doing few exercises like tongue twister and stretch your lips in smiling posture, this helps to make the lips thinner. Apart from them try to apply concealer before applying lipstick, go for dark shades and avoid nudes... Keep smiling always. Take care
How to accept the fact of being a mother of autistic child
I know it is a very difficult situation for you... But it is not that bad as you think....with proper therapies and guidance there can be a major improvement... I have seen many cases where the child has shown good improvement and doing well... But for this you and family needs to be strong as you will have to be a strong pillar... Just have faith and confidence.
How to control the child anger?
I know it must be very difficult but the best way out is to patiently deal with the child.. Stay calm and let him do what he does, just make sure he does not hurt himself... After it is over and seems to be fine and calm, give him a hug and try explaining him not to do these... This really will help dear.
How to get rid of skin pits and large pores.
I also did have pores, for this used banana peel . Rub the peel on the face for 15 minutes then wash it with plain water... Try doing this twice a week.. It really does help.
Online computer courses for 12 years old kid.
I think since the kid is only 12 years, there is no need for computer courses at this age.. This will only increase the burden.... As for writing mails and handling social media, there is nothing to worry about, they are very fast learner and will easily learn these and for this no special course will be required dear
Explain more about MSME scheme.
Under MSME scheme one can avail loan for both existing business or for setting up a new business too. The loan rates differ from 7.95% -16.25%...for further help please do contact your branch.. All the best.
Who is the most taxpayer star in Bollywood?
As far as I know Amitabh Bachan is the highest taxpayer, he had paid 70 crores of tax in 2018-19, then comes Salman Khan with 44 crores, Akshay Kumar with 29.5 crores... Also there is Hrithik Roshan and Shah Rukh Khan who also pay a good amount of tax...take care
How to conrol dowry system in India? What are the rules?
Taking or giving dowry, both are punishable... It can call for 6 months of punishment or five thousand amount of money or both.... Definitely dowry should be completely stopped.. It an social evil where many girls and their families are severely affected.. There are also cases of loss of life...
How to grow my direct selling business ?
Please don't get disheartened with rejection... They are part of the business.. It is not that only one in business goes through rejection, also salaried people also face rejection. What I have seen my cousin who is also in direct selling, she uses her Fb profile and instagram profile to advertise her products, she is part of many groups which helps people to sell their products and advertise them to.. Apart from them you can distribute pamphlets or flyers in your neighborhood so that people know what all you are dealing with...hope this helps.. All the best.
Why these bollywood stars don't do proper financial planning.
You are right their lifestyle is very high and that is the reason they are depressed or not able to take the pressure when they don't have work ...very few people can accept the fact and move on and find something else suitable for themselves... Their lifestyle might look great but in reality it is very difficult..
after positive pregnancy test, when can i terminate my baby
It is actually legal to get the abortion done within 20 weeks of pregnancy. However if you are within 7 weeks of pregnancy then you can abortion done by pill or else you need to go for a d&c which is a small surgery. ...in either case I would suggest you to consult the doctor.
Why adopted child feel obliged for your kindness, but not your own child
I really feel that you have really asked a very good question.. What I think is that it is not only because of the family but also due to the society. Whenever the society comes to know the child is adopted they start behaving a different way or may be say something which make them feel obliged.. The best one can do is to maintain a healthy relationship, so that the Child can talk freely with everyone and express one's feelings and thoughts... Take care
Why kids like Oreo biscuits , chocolates etc
It is a tendency of everyone to like junk food, we grown ups also love junk food, so there is nothing different for the kids... As for healthy home cooked food, you need to devlop interest in the child... Show the child how healthy food helps to fight germs and bad bacteria, involve them in shopping of vegetables and fruits, include them in cooking like cleaning the vegetables with water, tearing of the leafy vegetables, or simply preparing a salad... Lastly have a family meal, make sure every one in the family has meals together.. Kids learn by copying adults, if we ask adults enjoy our healthy food soon they will also follow... Take care
How to restart my career after baby?
Please don't loose hopes and hold on strong dear... It might be difficult but not impossible... You can also try website like hersecondinnings, jobs for her, sheroes and upwork... These are few of the websites which help women to return to career... All the best
How to make my 5 year old son to study
This is a same story every where, I also have faced it... Try to make the child write with colourful sketchpens, give little colourful worksheets, you can keep some stickers like smileys or stars, give him that once he completes, you can also reward him with his favorite meal or dish.... This are the different ways which you can make the child to sit and learn... Also make sure to follow a routine as kids love routine... All the best.
How to claim your share in property
Ideally your brother is working as per an employee for which he is getting paid, so he has no stake on your Uncle's property until he himself agrees to it or your brother has anyway done any monetary investment in the property... Hope this helps.. Take care
How to file complaint against domestic violence
I am sorry since you have to go through this.... However for domestic violence you need to file a police complaint and then find a good lawyer to help you... Also if you can record all these behavior which is done to you, it can make your case stronger... Don't worry and stay strong....lot of hugs to you dear.
My daughter wants to become a Doctor.
It is very nice to hear that your daughter wants to become a doctor to serve the mankind.. For this she needs to have biology as a subject for +2 and she needs to clear National Eligibility cum Entrance Test(NEET UG) for entrance into the MBBS(Bachelor in Medicine and Bachelor in Surgery) couse...all the best
What to select as a secondary language for my kid in school
As for learning a foreign language I would suggest you to go for Spanish as it is the most widely spoken and when the child travels in future will not face much of problem... Both French and Spanish are good for if one needs to choose between one of them then Spanish is what I would suggest.
What is the right age to start abacus classes for my kid?
Generally from the age of 5 years...also always go for offline classes as they are too small to concentrate on the online classes.
we are planning to buy one printer hope HP is good what do you are using at home?
Getting a printer at-home is a good idea if you need it on more or less regular use... I myself have a HP printer at home and am quite happy... But if you don't need it on regular basis then I would suggest you not to buy it...
Hey guys how you match perfume with your dress?
Yes dear you are right.. Perfumes do matter in case of different occasions.. Like if you are in business meet or job interview then go for light floral -woody scent and when with friends prefer a sweet floral scent, however when in a social event go for a strong scent ..hope this helps.
I am also dust allergic. Please suggest how to keep mattress clean
Congratulations on your new home... As for dust allergy you can try air purifier at home, once a week try to use vacuum cleaner to clean the dust from the mattress and avoid using carpets, this is the biggest source of dust accumulation....hope this helps.
We were planning to buy one Bluetooth speaker or Alexa, which one is better
I find both the products are good.. I though personally prefer Maybelline or Faces, but if the makeup remains more then it can cause problems like pimples or rashes, also try to remove your makeup before going to bed. Avoid using too much of makeup... I prefer to keep kajal, lip balm, and BB cream handy... Also if possible keep some wet tissues to give that refreshing feeling
I feel they miss their childhood and isn't it affect them?
I personally feel it is too early for a child to start all these at the age of 4 to 5 years of age.. There is lot of time for this activities... I would suggest you to do simple activities at home to keep the child engaged and let the child enjoy his or her childhood.
Need remedy for hair loss which worked for you
With the stressful life we lead, it definitely affects our hair.. I would suggest you to take a balanced diet, have more of green vegetables, and fruits, include atleast 10 to 12 glasses of water.. Also I use olive oil, castor and coconut oil in equal quantities and apply it overnight and then use a mild shampoo next day.. Try this it works..hope this helps.
Which educational Board is good for kids
There is lot of confusion when choosing about a board, I myself felt it in my son's case...I would suggest only one thing is go for any board, what is important that you have to take care of the studies of the child... Icse board covers a wider prospect, cbse is more like stress on science and maths, IB and IGSC is international board, where practicals are more important but also if you planing to send the child abroad after class 10 then it is a good option. ...so it completely depends on which board you choose. ..all the best.
Need advice on the selection of second language for kids
Learning a new language is an added benefit... There is no problem in learning Telugu ....since Hindi is the first language of yours, the child will not face much of problem once you shift to North India.... Infact my son is learning Marathi, Hindi and English and we at home we speak Bengali ...dont think much about this dear.
Need advice on beauty product
Can you suggest some remedies for stretch marks? How to hide them?
Please help me with the tips to overcome the stress?
I am really happy that as a parent you want to inculcate such values.. Yes it is very important for the child to understand that failure is also a part of life and infact success too... You can tell him the stories of the spider who was trying to build a cobweb and finally got success after umpteen efforts.. Also give him or tell him from your life or his close family how failure taught them way to success.. Also play family games and loose and show how positive way you take....you need to keep on giving instances at different situation, slowly and steadily he will understand dear... Take care
I am a mother of 2 and want to start learning new skils.
It is actually a very good thought that you want to learn a new skill. But before learning about any new skills, try to read about it.. There are many articles and you tube videos.. Also try to find out your interests, it is very important that you should have interest in the particular skill before you learn more about it... Hope this helps.. All the best.
How can I control the portion size for my 5 years old?
Please relax and don't take so much stress.. As long the child is having healthy food there is nothing to worry but yes not while watching the TV or mobile ...as it might make the child eat more than its appetite.. If the child wants to have snacks, let him first finish it then watch TV.... Don't worry about portion size, let the child eat as per the appetite... Hope this helps
what is the right age for kids to teach about sex education?
Which business should I do online education or e-commerce?
I am fed up with my office politics and gossips.
What are the meaning of shorforms written in Ultrasound?
How to stay safe and positive in this coronavirus pandemic time?
This is a very difficult time and being pregnant I understand how difficult it must be for you. But don't take stress. Try to maintain hygiene and social distancing. Make sure only one person from the family goes out for groceries and vegetables. You can consult the doctor over the phone and some doctors also arrange for consultation over video call... Go for tests only which your doctor suggest you. Once you are back from outside or whoever goes out, make sure the person washes the shoes and feet properly before entering the house, keep a separate set of shoe wear preferable washable friendly, then immediately go to washroom open the clothes and wash them immediately in hot water and detergent, wash your hands properly for 20 seconds and take a bath...apart from this include vitamin c fruits and vegetables like orange, pineapple, lemons, tomatoes to fight the virus... These are the small steps which does help a lot... Last of all don't take stress and stay positive.
Take care
why Bollywood actors opts for surrogacy?
People who might opt for surrogacy might have many reasons... Also people who look fit might have health issues, other reason which plays important role is age. Age plays an important role in pregnancy. So don't worry dear... It depends on person to person, commitment and situation... Take care
How to promote eating without watching tv or mobile?
Don't stress out... I know it is a bad habit but since the child already is used to it it will take little time... Initially my son also did the same thing but with some effort I have finally helped him to have meals with out any gadget. I started to offer meals only when he was hungry, tried to make sure that we have meals together, initially I gave mobile then slowly I started to off the internet or cable and showed him there is no connection. Got colourful plates and spoons with cartoons, made food attractive... Try to include the child in family meals.. This works well... Last of all you need to keep a lot of patience as it takes some time to see the results... Happy parenting 😊
I am the first time pregnant, and when I start preparing the food, I can't bear the smell of cooking oil spice
Congratulations on your pregnancy. Yes during the first trimester some face problems with the smell of oil and spices, I also had faced the same problem. I used to put handkerchief on the nose while cooking, though it is troublesome but atleast helped from feeling uneasy. Also when my husband was at home I used to ask him to cook, I used to keep all the vegetables chopped, spices ready and he just cooked the food. Make sure the windows and all are open so that once the cooking is done the smell does not stay... Hope this helps..all the best.
How these doctors are taking care of themselves in this coronavirus situation?
I understand it is very difficult keep peace with ourselves in this pandemic situation... Doctors who are getting affected are directly exposed to the people affected with the virus... However taking few precautionary measures can help ourselves like stay at home and do not move out unless necessary , if you go out make sure you change your dress and wash them and wash your hands and exposed parts properly, eat a healthy diet with plenty of vegetables to increase your immunity... Take care
What actions can I take against my husband for physical abuse?
I am really sorry that you need to go through this... However it is very important that you inform your parents first about it and then search a good lawyer. The lawyer will help you with all the legality. Also try to move out from the house with your kids as staying there is not safe for you... Take care and more power to you.
why my knee makes the or do squat
While working out, it is very important to maintain proper posture or else there are chances of hurting yourself.... Yes, you need to be not only careful but also get your posture right to get the maximum benefit...while doing squats never put pressure on your knees... To get the form right use a chair.... Lower your body without bending the knees, as you do while sitting on the chair, do not bend... Practice this with a chair and also check the you tube videos to get a better hold... Once you understand it, then you can practice it without the chair.
Take care
What is Placenta Previa?
my baby is 1 year and he is still not walking.
All the best